Freid Atyia

Freid Atyia, beloved husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, and lifelong Seminole resident, passed away peacefully on August 6, 2025, at the age of 91, surrounded by his loving family.

Born on December 31, 1933, to Shaheen M. Atyia and Nellie B. Hill Atyia, Freid lived a life defined by dedication—to his family, his work, his hometown, and the passions that made him who he was.

In 1954, Freid began what would become a 35-year career with the United States Postal Service, retiring in 1989 with the respect of his colleagues and the appreciation of his community. He approached his work with the same reliability and commitment that he showed in all areas of his life.

On June 8, 1957, Freid married Sandra Kaye Thompson, his sweetheart and the love of his life. Their union was a true love story. Their marriage of over 44 years was full of laughter, loyalty, and love, and together they built a home that became the heart of countless memories—not just for their family, but for the entire community. Whether it was a holiday meal, a birthday party, or a simple get-together, Freid and Sandra’s home was always open, warm, and full of life.

They raised four children: Wm Hammett Atyia and wife Pam of Seminole, Oklahoma; Tracy Atyia of Tulsa, Oklahoma; Michael Shaheen Atyia and wife Sandra of Bowlegs, Oklahoma; and Tandi (Atyia) Thomas and husband Jay of Edmond, Oklahoma. Freid was a proud and present grandfather to Nick Atyia, Derek Atyia, Blake Thomas, Kyle Atyia, Johnnie Atyia, Michael Coates, Wm Garrett Coates, Caitlin Coates, Margo McKenzie, and Madeline Savage. He also delighted in his 12 great-grandchildren, who each brought new energy to his life.

A passionate fan of all things Seminole Chieftain, Freid was green and white through and through. He bled Chieftain green. In 1964, along with some friends, he began what would become famously known as Seminole Tiny Chief’s Football. He would also spend an estimated 2,400 hours watching high school football from his favorite perch in the northeast end zone—rain or shine, season after season. And that does not include the thousands of hours watching everything else Seminole sports that he loved. He entered the Seminole Hall of Fame in 2006. Freid was a true son of Seminole. His love for Oklahoma Sooners sports ran just as deep, and few things could compete with game day.

Freid also enjoyed the quiet moments—losing himself in westerns and mystery novels, passing time at the racetrack (especially Oaklawn), watching golf and tennis majors, golfing with friends, or officiating high school sports around the state, including the 1975 All-State Football game. He could often be found on the patio of his home, where he lived for 50 years, enjoying a cigar. And at Christmastime, his legendary yard displays turned his home into a glowing beacon of joy and wonder for young and old alike. His Christmas yard was a seasonal landmark for the Seminole community.

Proud of his heritage, Freid cherished his Lebanese roots. His family was deeply connected to the joy of fellowship and cultural tradition. Whether it was gathering family around a table laden with traditional dishes or sharing stories from generations past, his love for his culture and family history remained unwavering.

After 91 years, Freid was ready to be with Jesus. His legacy was already carved in stone, his body was tired, and he looked forward to the next great journey of eternal life in heaven. He is happier today than he could have ever been on earth.

Freid is survived by his sisters, Shirlene Pratka and Joann Howell; his brother, Doug “Butch” Atyia and wife Judy; and a large, loving family who carry on his values of loyalty, laughter, and love.

He was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Sandra Kaye Thompson Atyia; his son, Michael Shaheen Atyia; his parents, Shaheen and Nellie Atyia; his siblings Johnnie Brown, Haney Atyia, Betty Jo Atyia, Hammett Atyia, Norma Atyia, and Zekeah Atyia; and his second wife, Pat Crawford.

Freid Atyia lived a large life full of heart and purpose. He will be remembered for his booming laugh, his generous spirit, his smile and wit, and the way he brought people together—under stadium lights, around the dinner table, or simply in the everyday moments that mattered most. He leaves behind a legacy that will echo through generations.

Pallbearers: Nick Atyia, Derek Atyia, Kyle Atyia, Johnnie Atyia, Michael Coates, and Garrett Coates. Honorary Pallbearers: Doug Atyia, Thurman Edwards, Glenn Siler, John Randolph, and Mike Snyder.

The family would like to express deep gratitude to Dr. John Randolph and Bristol Hospice Group.

Viewing will be on Saturday, August 9, 2025 from 8 am to 5 pm at Swearingen Funeral Home in Seminole.

A memorial service in honor of Freid Atyia will be held on Monday, August 11, 2025, at the First Baptist Church in Seminole, Oklahoma, at 10 am.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Seminole Athletic Program at 600 W. Strothers, Seminole, Oklahoma, 74868.

Arrangements are under the direction of Swearingen Funeral Home in Seminole, Oklahoma.